Pets Help Boomers Fill Empty Nest

Are baby boomers going crazy? They’re sending their pets to spas and resorts that offer massages, spa baths, suites with TVs and shopping sprees!

No, they are not losing their minds. Pets are no longer something to keep chained up outside or in a doghouse, but rather they are considered treasured members of our families. They are like our kids, only lower maintenance and more cooperative. They are a genuine part of the household, sharing eating, sleeping and family vacations.

Pets are so significant, that when our “real” kids leave home for college or to start their own lives, it is our pets that fill the empty nest and emotional void. Many of us are no longer burdened with the cost of raising children, and are even willing to use our extra income to extend the lives of our furry friends. We are opting for expensive surgeries and preventative procedures that rival human medicine, just to keep our pets around longer.

We continue to spoil our pets as we did our children and the bond between us and them is growing and strong. Our pets give us peace of mind and comfort during the difficult transition time when we must let our children “fly the coop.” They help us feel less lonely and more needed.

Having pets has so many health benefits, too. They help reduce blood pressure, triglyceride and cholesterol levels and even reduce the number of trips to the doctor and time spent in the hospital. Research shows that we have to remain healthy since our pets are so dependent on us for walking, feeding and maintaining their healthy quality of life. Pets decrease anger, frustration, depression and reduce stress. They also give us a sense of purpose and satisfaction.

My wonderful pet, Gus, was a feral, non-friendly cat when we first met. However, he became the most affectionate, devoted and loving cat I’ve ever owned. He has, by far, the sweetest temperament and disposition. Not only is he a “”lap-cat when you watch TV, but he’s a “curl up in your arms in bed” cat at night. The house is quieter without the kids, but just as joyful and alive with my sweet, best companion, Gus, in it.

Our animals are natural born healers and they lift up our spirits and bring us a feeling of well-being that we often can’t get anywhere else. There is no better way to enrich your life than by sharing it with the unconditional love of a pet (or 2).

Visit your local pet shelter and adopt!